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- TEKS.HEALTH.3.18 primary
demonstrate refusal skills related to alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs using assertive communication.
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Lesson Overview
This lesson teaches Grade 3 students how to use refusal skills with assertive communication to avoid using alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs. Students will learn what refusal skills are, why they are important, and practice saying no confidently in different situations. The lesson includes direct teaching, role-playing, and reflection to build students' confidence in making healthy choices.
Learning Objectives
- Identify refusal skills that help avoid alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs.
- Demonstrate refusal skills using assertive communication in role-play scenarios.
- Explain why using refusal skills is important for personal health and safety.
Success Criteria
- Students can clearly say no to offers of alcohol, tobacco, or other drugs using confident and respectful language.
- Students participate in role-play activities demonstrating refusal skills.
- Students explain how refusal skills help keep them healthy and safe.
Prerequisite Knowledge
Students should understand what alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs are and recognize that these substances can be harmful. They should also have basic communication skills and understand the importance of making healthy choices.
Key Vocabulary
- Refusal skills
- Assertive communication
- Alcohol
- Tobacco
- Drugs
- Healthy choices
- Peer pressure
Materials and Resources
- Scenario cards with peer pressure situations
- Role-play scripts
- Whiteboard or chart paper and markers
- Visual aids showing refusal phrases
Teacher Preparation
- Prepare scenario cards illustrating offers of alcohol, tobacco, or drugs.
- Review examples of assertive refusal phrases.
- Arrange the classroom for small group role-play activities.
- Prepare visual aids with refusal skill steps.
Detailed Lesson Notes
Understanding Refusal Skills
Refusal skills are ways to say no to things that are harmful or unsafe, like alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs. These skills help students make healthy choices and avoid peer pressure. Refusal skills include saying no clearly, using confident body language, and giving reasons for refusing.
Assertive Communication
Assertive communication means expressing your feelings and decisions clearly and respectfully without being aggressive or passive. When refusing substances, students should speak firmly, make eye contact, and use a calm tone. This helps others understand their decision and respect it.
Common Situations and Responses
Students often face situations where friends or others might offer them alcohol, tobacco, or drugs. Examples include being offered a cigarette at a party or being pressured to try alcohol at a family gathering. Teaching students specific refusal phrases like "No, thank you, I don't want to," or "I choose to stay healthy," helps them respond confidently.
Role-Playing to Practice Skills
Role-playing allows students to practice refusal skills in a safe environment. By acting out scenarios, students can try different ways to say no and see how body language and tone affect the message. Teachers should guide students to use assertive communication and provide feedback.
Importance of Refusal Skills for Health
Using refusal skills helps students avoid harmful substances that can affect their health, growth, and safety. It also builds self-confidence and helps maintain healthy friendships. Understanding the impact of their choices encourages students to stand firm against peer pressure.
Worked Examples
Worked Example 1
Scenario
In a role-play, a friend offers you a cigarette and says, "Come on, just try it once!" How can you use refusal skills to say no?
Explanation
You should say no clearly and confidently, using assertive communication. For example, you can say, "No, thank you. I don't want to smoke because it's bad for my health." Use a firm voice and look the friend in the eye to show you mean it.
Answer Guide
"No, thank you. I don't want to smoke because it's bad for my health." said firmly with eye contact.
Engage
Teacher Activity
Begin by asking students if they have ever been asked to do something they did not want to do. Discuss how it feels to say no and why it can be hard sometimes.
Student Activity
Students share experiences or feelings about saying no to something they did not want to do.
Explanation
This activity connects students' personal experiences to the lesson topic, preparing them to learn refusal skills.
Examples
- Students share examples of saying no.
- Students express feelings about refusing requests.
Explore
Teacher Activity
Introduce refusal skills and assertive communication. Show examples of how to say no clearly and confidently. Present scenario cards with offers of alcohol, tobacco, or drugs.
Student Activity
In small groups, students read scenario cards and discuss how they would say no using refusal skills.
Explanation
Students explore refusal skills by analyzing situations and thinking about assertive ways to respond.
Examples
- Students suggest refusal phrases.
- Students identify confident body language like eye contact and firm voice.
Explain
Teacher Activity
Model refusal skills by role-playing a scenario with a volunteer. Highlight the use of assertive communication and refusal phrases.
Student Activity
Observe the role-play and discuss what made the refusal effective.
Explanation
Modeling shows students how to use refusal skills in real-life situations and why assertive communication works.
Examples
- Students identify clear, firm refusal phrases.
- Students recognize confident tone and posture.
Elaborate
Teacher Activity
Have students practice refusal skills by role-playing different scenarios in pairs or small groups. Provide feedback and encourage use of assertive communication.
Student Activity
Students take turns role-playing offers of substances and practicing refusal skills.
Explanation
Practice helps students build confidence and apply refusal skills in various situations.
Examples
- Students use refusal phrases confidently.
- Students demonstrate assertive body language.
Evaluate
Teacher Activity
Ask students to demonstrate refusal skills by role-playing or explaining how they would say no to offers of alcohol, tobacco, or drugs. Use an exit ticket where students write or draw a refusal response.
Student Activity
Students perform a refusal role-play or complete the exit ticket showing their refusal skills.
Explanation
This assessment checks if students can use refusal skills and understand their importance.
Examples
- Students clearly demonstrate refusal skills.
- Students explain the health reasons for refusing substances.
Classroom Activity
In small groups, students read scenario cards and discuss how they would say no using refusal skills.
Guided Practice
Guided Practice 1
Prompt
What does it mean to say no assertively?
Teacher Answer Guide
It means to say no clearly and confidently without being mean or shy.
Guided Practice 2
Prompt
Name one refusal phrase you can use if someone offers you tobacco.
Teacher Answer Guide
"No, thank you. I don't want to use tobacco."
Guided Practice 3
Prompt
If a friend offers you alcohol at a party, how can you refuse using refusal skills?
Teacher Answer Guide
You can say, "No, I choose to stay healthy and not drink alcohol," using a firm voice and eye contact.
Guided Practice 4
Prompt
Why is it important to use assertive communication when refusing alcohol, tobacco, or drugs?
Teacher Answer Guide
Because it helps others understand your decision clearly and respect it, making it more likely they will stop pressuring you.
Guided Practice 5
Prompt
Describe a situation where refusal skills might be hard to use and explain how you can still say no assertively.
Teacher Answer Guide
It might be hard if many friends are pressuring you or if you feel scared to say no. You can still say no by speaking firmly, standing tall, and repeating your refusal if needed.
Independent Practice
- Foundational: What does it mean to say no assertively?
- Developing: Name one refusal phrase you can use if someone offers you tobacco.
- Application: If a friend offers you alcohol at a party, how can you refuse using refusal skills?
- Analysis: Why is it important to use assertive communication when refusing alcohol, tobacco, or drugs?
- Challenge: Describe a situation where refusal skills might be hard to use and explain how you can still say no assertively.
Independent Practice Teacher Answer Key
- 1. It means to say no clearly and confidently without being mean or shy.
- 2. "No, thank you. I don't want to use tobacco."
- 3. You can say, "No, I choose to stay healthy and not drink alcohol," using a firm voice and eye contact.
- 4. Because it helps others understand your decision clearly and respect it, making it more likely they will stop pressuring you.
- 5. It might be hard if many friends are pressuring you or if you feel scared to say no. You can still say no by speaking firmly, standing tall, and repeating your refusal if needed.
Guiding Questions
- What are refusal skills?
- How can you say no assertively?
- Why is it important to refuse alcohol, tobacco, and drugs?
- What body language shows confidence?
- How can you practice refusal skills?
Common Misconceptions
- Saying no means being rude or mean to friends.
- Refusal skills only involve saying the word "no" without explanation.
- Being quiet or shy when refusing is the same as being assertive.
- Only adults need to use refusal skills, not kids.
- Using refusal skills will always make friends upset.
Differentiation
Support and Intervention
Provide sentence starters for refusal phrases. Use visual aids to show body language examples. Allow students to practice in small groups before whole class role-play.
English-Language Learner Support
Use simple, clear language and repeat key vocabulary. Show pictures or videos demonstrating refusal skills. Pair ELL students with supportive peers for role-play.
Advanced and Extension
Challenge students to create their own refusal scenarios. Encourage students to explain why refusal skills are important to others. Have students write a short story about using refusal skills in real life.
Assessment
- Observe students during role-play to check use of refusal skills.
- Ask students to explain refusal skills in their own words.
- Use exit tickets where students write or draw how they would say no.
- Write a refusal phrase you can use if someone offers you tobacco.
- Draw a picture showing how to say no assertively.
- Explain why it is important to refuse alcohol, tobacco, and drugs.
- Have students perform a refusal role-play in front of the class.
- Create a quiz with scenarios asking students how to respond using refusal skills.
- Assign a reflective journal entry about the importance of refusal skills.
Answer Guide
- What does it mean to say no assertively?
Answer: It means to say no clearly and confidently without being mean or shy. - Name one refusal phrase you can use if someone offers you tobacco.
Answer: "No, thank you. I don't want to use tobacco." - If a friend offers you alcohol at a party, how can you refuse using refusal skills?
Answer: You can say, "No, I choose to stay healthy and not drink alcohol," using a firm voice and eye contact. - Why is it important to use assertive communication when refusing alcohol, tobacco, or drugs?
Answer: Because it helps others understand your decision clearly and respect it, making it more likely they will stop pressuring you. - Describe a situation where refusal skills might be hard to use and explain how you can still say no assertively.
Answer: It might be hard if many friends are pressuring you or if you feel scared to say no. You can still say no by speaking firmly, standing tall, and repeating your refusal if needed.
Real-Life Application
Send a letter home asking families to discuss refusal skills with their child and practice saying no to peer pressure together.
Homework or Home Connection
- Send a letter home asking families to discuss refusal skills with their child and practice saying no to peer pressure together.
Lesson Summary
In this lesson, students learned what refusal skills are and how to use assertive communication to say no to alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs. Through discussion, modeling, and role-play, students practiced confident ways to refuse offers and understood why these skills are important for their health and safety.
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