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Problems in marriage

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TERM: 1ST TERM

WEEK: 5

CLASS: Junior Secondary School 1

AGE: 12 years

DURATION: 40 minutes

DATE:

SUBJECT: Christian Religious Knowledge

TOPIC: Problems in marriage

SPECIFIC OBJECTIVES: At the end of the lesson, the learners should be able to

1.) List and explain the types of marriage

2.) Mention and explain the problems that may arise in marriages

3.) Discuss the solutions to each of the problems discussed

INSTRUCTIONAL TECHNIQUES: Identification, explanation, questions and answers, demonstration, story-telling, videos from source

INSTRUCTIONAL MATERIALS: Recommended Christian Religious Knowledge textbooks for Junior Secondary School 1

INSTRUCTIONAL PROCEDURES:

PRESENTATION

TEACHER’S ACTIVITY

PUPIL’S ACTIVITY

STEP 1

Review

The teacher revises the previous lesson

Learners pay attention

STEP 2

Introduction

She then introduces the new topic by mentioning and explaining the types of marriages.

She also explains the problems that may arise in marriages

Learners pay attention and participate

STEP 3

Explanation

She further explores how the problems may be resolved and addressed

Learners pay attention and participate

STEP 4

NOTE TAKING

The teacher writes a short note on the board for the learners to copy

The learners copy the note from the board

NOTE

PROBLEMS IN MARRIAGES

Types of Marriage
There are various types of marriage recognized across cultures and societies. Here are some common types:

  • Monogamy: This is the most common type of marriage, where one individual is married to one partner at a time. It promotes exclusivity and a deep emotional connection between the spouses.
  • Polygamy: This involves one person having multiple spouses simultaneously. It is further divided into two subtypes:
    • Polygyny: A man is married to multiple women.
    • Polyandry: A woman is married to multiple men.
      Polygamous marriages can be practiced for various cultural, economic, or social reasons.
  • Group Marriage: In this arrangement, multiple individuals form a single marriage unit, with each person considered a spouse to every other person in the group. This type of marriage is rare and often exists in specific cultural contexts.
  • Civil Marriage: This is a legally recognized union that does not necessarily involve religious ceremony or sanction. It is governed by the laws of the state or country.
  • Religious Marriage: This type of marriage is conducted according to the customs and rituals of a particular religion. It often includes spiritual or sacramental elements, such as vows made before God.
  • Common-law Marriage: This type of marriage is recognized in some jurisdictions when a couple lives together for a certain period and presents themselves as a married couple, even without a formal ceremony or license.

 

Problems That May Arise in Marriages
Marriages can face various challenges, including:

  • Communication Issues: Poor communication can lead to misunderstandings, resentment, and emotional distance between partners.
  • Financial Stress: Disagreements over finances, spending habits, or financial instability can strain a marriage.
  • Infidelity: Betrayal through emotional or physical infidelity can cause deep wounds and trust issues.
  • Lack of Intimacy: Emotional and physical intimacy may diminish over time, leading to feelings of loneliness and dissatisfaction.
  • Differences in Values or Goals: Discrepancies in personal values, life goals, or parenting styles can create conflicts and frustration.

 

Solutions to Each Problem Discussed
Here are potential solutions for each of the marriage problems outlined:

  • Communication Issues:
    • Solution: Couples should practice open and honest communication, including active listening and expressing feelings without blame. Regular check-ins about feelings and needs can foster better understanding.
  • Financial Stress:
    • Solution: Couples can create a budget together, set financial goals, and discuss spending priorities openly. Seeking the help of a financial advisor can also provide guidance on managing finances effectively.
  • Infidelity:
    • Solution: Rebuilding trust after infidelity requires open communication, honesty, and possibly professional counseling. Both partners need to address underlying issues and commit to healing and rebuilding the relationship.
  • Lack of Intimacy:
    • Solution: Couples should prioritize quality time together, engage in activities that foster closeness, and explore each other’s emotional and physical needs. Seeking therapy or counseling may help address deeper intimacy issues.
  • Differences in Values or Goals:
    • Solution: Couples should engage in constructive discussions to understand each other’s values and goals. Compromise, negotiation, and, if needed, counseling can help align their visions for the future.

 

EVALUATION:   

  1. Define monogamy and polygamy, and explain the key differences between these two types of marriage.
  2. Identify and discuss two common problems that can arise in marriages related to communication and finances.
  3. What are some effective strategies couples can use to improve communication and resolve misunderstandings?
  4. How can couples rebuild trust after experiencing infidelity, and why is this process important for the health of the marriage?
  5. Discuss the significance of aligning values and goals in marriage. What steps can couples take to address differences in their values?

CLASSWORK: As in evaluation

CONCLUSION: The teacher marks their books and commends them positively