Standards Alignment
- TEKS.HEALTH.K.03C primary
discuss how friends can influence a person's behavior; - TEKS.HEALTH.K.03D primary
demonstrate skills for making new acquaintances;
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Lesson Overview
This lesson introduces kindergarten students to the concept that friends can influence a person's behavior and helps them practice skills for making new acquaintances. It supports social and emotional health by encouraging students to recognize positive influences and develop healthy relationships through role play and discussion.
Learning Objectives
- Explain how friends can influence a person's behavior.
- Demonstrate skills for making new acquaintances, such as introducing themselves and sharing interests.
Success Criteria
- Students can describe ways friends might influence behavior positively or negatively.
- Students can role play meeting a new friend using polite greetings and sharing.
- Students participate in discussions about healthy friendships and behaviors.
Prerequisite Knowledge
Students should understand basic social interactions such as greeting others and sharing feelings.
Key Vocabulary
- Friend
- Behavior
- Influence
- Acquaintance
- Kindness
- Sharing
Materials and Resources
- Picture cards showing different social situations with friends
- Role-play props (hats, name tags, toys)
- Chart paper and markers
Teacher Preparation
- Prepare picture cards illustrating friends influencing behavior (e.g., sharing toys, helping, or being mean)
- Set up a role-play area with props
- Prepare a simple chart listing ways friends can influence behavior
Detailed Lesson Notes
Understanding Influence from Friends
Influence means how someone can affect what we do or how we act. Friends can influence us in many ways. For example, a friend might encourage us to share toys or to be kind to others. Sometimes friends might influence us to do things that are not good, like not listening or being mean. It is important to notice how friends affect our behavior so we can make good choices.
Making New Acquaintances
An acquaintance is someone new we meet and get to know. Making new acquaintances means learning how to start a friendship. This includes saying hello, sharing your name, asking questions like 'What do you like to play?', and listening carefully. These skills help us build healthy relationships and feel comfortable around others.
Role of Social and Emotional Health
Social and emotional health means understanding our feelings and how to get along with others. Recognizing how friends influence us helps us make choices that keep us happy and safe. Practicing making new friends builds confidence and helps us feel connected.
Common Misconceptions
Some students might think all friends always make good choices or that they must do what friends say. It is important to teach that we can choose to say no to things that feel wrong and that good friends respect our choices.
Worked Examples
Worked Example 1
Scenario
Look at the picture where one child shares a toy with another. How is the friend influencing behavior here?
Explanation
The child sharing the toy is showing kindness, which influences the other child to feel happy and possibly share too. This is a positive influence because it encourages sharing and caring behavior.
Answer Guide
The friend is influencing by being kind and sharing, which helps others learn to share too.
Worked Example 2
Scenario
In a role play, a new student says 'Hello, my name is Sam. What do you like to play?' What skill is Sam demonstrating?
Explanation
Sam is demonstrating the skill of making a new acquaintance by greeting and asking a question to start a friendship.
Answer Guide
Sam is showing how to make a new friend by saying hello and asking about interests.
Engage
Teacher Activity
Show pictures of children playing together and ask students if they have friends who like to play with them. Ask: 'Can friends help us make good choices? How?','Have you ever made a new friend? How did you do it?'
Student Activity
Students share stories about their friends and times they made new friends.
Explanation
This phase activates prior knowledge about friends and introduces the idea that friends influence behavior and the importance of making new friends.
Examples
- Students talk about friends sharing, helping, or playing nicely.
- Students describe ways friends can influence behavior positively.
- Students recall ways they met new friends.
Explore
Teacher Activity
Present picture cards showing different scenarios where friends influence behavior (sharing, helping, or not listening). Guide students to discuss each scenario.
Student Activity
In small groups, students talk about what the friends are doing and how it might influence behavior.
Explanation
Students explore examples of friend influence through discussion and observation of scenarios.
Examples
- Students identify positive and negative influences from friends.
- Students express feelings about the behaviors shown.
Explain
Teacher Activity
Explain that friends can influence us to do good things like sharing and being kind, or sometimes not-so-good things. Teach simple skills to make new friends: greeting, sharing name, asking questions.
Student Activity
Students practice greeting each other, sharing their names, and asking a question to a partner.
Explanation
This phase clarifies the concept of influence and models social skills for making acquaintances.
Examples
- Students use greetings and questions appropriately.
- Students understand how friends can influence behavior.
Elaborate
Teacher Activity
Lead role-play activities where students practice making new friends and choosing positive behaviors influenced by friends.
Student Activity
Students role play meeting new friends and making choices to be kind and share.
Explanation
Students apply skills in social situations and reflect on how friends influence behavior.
Examples
- Students demonstrate polite introductions and sharing.
- Students show understanding of positive influence and refusal skills.
Evaluate
Teacher Activity
Ask students to explain or show how friends can influence behavior and demonstrate how to make a new acquaintance through a short role play or discussion.
Student Activity
Students share examples of friend influence and role play meeting someone new.
Explanation
Assessment confirms students' understanding of friend influence and social skills for making acquaintances.
Examples
- Students describe positive friend influences.
- Students successfully demonstrate greeting and sharing in role play.
Classroom Activity
In small groups, students talk about what the friends are doing and how it might influence behavior.
Guided Practice
Guided Practice 1
Prompt
What does it mean when we say a friend influences your behavior?
Teacher Answer Guide
It means a friend can help you decide how to act, like being kind or sharing.
Guided Practice 2
Prompt
How can you make a new friend?
Teacher Answer Guide
By saying hello, sharing your name, and asking questions about what they like.
Independent Practice
- Foundational: What is a friend?
- Developing: Name one way a friend can influence how you behave.
- Application: Show how you would say hello to someone new and ask their name.
- Analysis: Look at a picture where a friend is not sharing toys. How might this influence the other child's behavior?
- Challenge: Explain why it is important to choose friends who influence you in a good way.
Independent Practice Teacher Answer Key
- 1. A friend is someone you like to play with and who makes you feel happy.
- 2. A friend can influence me by encouraging me to share or be kind.
- 3. I would say, 'Hello, my name is ____. What is your name?'
- 4. The other child might feel sad or think it is okay not to share, which is a negative influence.
- 5. It is important because friends who influence us positively help us make good choices and be kind, which keeps us happy and safe.
Guiding Questions
- What does it mean to influence someone?
- How can friends help us make good choices?
- What do you say when you meet someone new?
- How can you be a good friend?
- What should you do if a friend asks you to do something wrong?
Common Misconceptions
- All friends always make good choices and we must do what they say.
- If a friend asks me to do something wrong, I have to do it to keep the friendship.
Differentiation
Support and Intervention
Use picture cards to show examples of friend influence. Provide sentence starters for greetings like 'Hello, my name is...'. Model social skills slowly and repeat as needed.
English-Language Learner Support
Use simple words and gestures to explain influence and friendship. Show pictures and act out greetings to support understanding. Encourage students to practice key phrases with partners.
Advanced and Extension
Ask students to explain how they can say no politely if a friend asks them to do something wrong. Encourage students to share stories about when friends helped them make good choices. Have students create their own role play scenarios about making new friends.
Assessment
- Observe students during role plays to see if they use greetings and questions appropriately.
- Ask students to describe one way friends can influence behavior during discussions.
- Have each student say how a friend can influence behavior and demonstrate saying hello to a new friend.
- Create a drawing or simple story showing a friend influencing behavior positively and explain it to the class.
Answer Guide
- What does it mean when we say a friend influences your behavior?
Answer: It means a friend can help you decide how to act, like being kind or sharing. - How can you make a new friend?
Answer: By saying hello, sharing your name, and asking questions about what they like.
Real-Life Application
Send a note home asking parents to help their child practice greeting new people and talking about friends who help them make good choices.
Homework or Home Connection
- Send a note home asking parents to help their child practice greeting new people and talking about friends who help them make good choices.
Lesson Summary
Friends can influence how we behave by encouraging us to be kind, share, or sometimes make poor choices. Learning to make new friends by greeting and asking questions helps us build healthy relationships. By recognizing positive influences and practicing social skills, we can develop strong, happy friendships that support our social and emotional health.
Teacher Notes
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